“I, you know, went to a lecture at Stanford about social networks in 2008”
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“there are people who are so amazing at Stanford and the Silicon Valley ecosystem was so amazing”
“She taught machine learning at Stanford.”
“we just reach out to students at Stanford and Berkeley and MIT”
“we've had a very good relationship with Stanford University with their department of linguistics”
“people always talk about W combinator and Stanford and all these places that create all these companies and Founders”
“these these folks are uh Stanford professors in the design lab”
“the graduate class of Stanford entrepreneurship for three minutes”
“you basically wrote your senior thesis at Stanford about why Facebook was gonna win”
“I went to Stanford for business school”
“I took one of Stanford's T-group weekends summer of 2020”
“your class at Stanford made them feel like their entire College tuition was worth it”
“today my guest is Ramesh Johari Ramesh is a professor at Stanford University”
“StartX that's run out of Stanford which is my alma mater.”
“she's also a lecturer at Stanford teaching a course on product management”
“he would go to the Stanford campus invite you know the Bay Area Elite”
“lecturer at Stanford, where she teaches product management, game design, and a few other topics.”
“there is an amazing one actually introduction to AI by Stanford”
“there were students at Stanford that had started companies but they no one would coach them”
“except for maybe being like a Stanford or Harvard grad top tier School grad in CS”
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