“three of us every 6 weeks in Palo Alto we have dinner”
Palo Alto
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“why are we living in palal Jesus Christ I don't want to I don't want to raise kids in palal”
“they live in the house house in in Palo Alto and they run into Sean Parker”
“okay let's move to Palo Alto”
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