“the other one that I love is um Ben Horowitz's book hard thing about hard things”
The Hard Thing About Hard Things
By Ben Horowitz
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“Hard things about hard things obviously but these are these are all quite common books.”
“I have recommended hard thing about hard things by Ben Horowitz.”
“the hard thing about hard things uh by Ben horovitz such a great book”
“then I read another book the hard thing about hard things but Ben Horowitz is like oh my god there are even more answers”
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