Anneka Gupta (Chief Product Officer at Rubrik)17 October 2024

Becoming more strategic, navigating difficult colleagues, harnessing founder mode, and more

10Frameworks

15Insights

Episode overview

Anneka Gupta explains that strategic leaders articulate a compelling, simple why and champion consequential changes that serve a product or company’s long-term interests. She discusses working effectively with founders, learning from organizational history, making decisions under uncertainty, and rewarding learning rather than only outcomes. The conversation also covers difficult colleagues, giving and receiving hard feedback, entering product management, managing energy, and using journaling to examine negative thoughts.

Key ideas

Strategic leadership combines a compelling, simple rationale with the willingness to champion difficult, high-impact changes.
Founder mode works best when leaders understand the business deeply, intervene selectively, and bring teams into course corrections early.
Summarizing diverse perspectives in meetings creates clarity, exposes disagreement, and can make strategic thinking more visible.
Studying past products and decisions helps leaders avoid repeating mistakes and understand organizational resistance.
A strong hypothesis and a roughly 70%-right decision can generate better information than prolonged analysis paralysis.
Rewarding learning rather than outcomes helps create a culture where teams can take informed risks.
Difficult colleagues become easier to navigate when you understand their motivations and deliberately look for what they can teach you.
People entering product management should build credibility in a product-adjacent role and learn to turn ambiguity into increasing clarity.

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Frameworks in this episode

Mindset5 steps

Abundance Engineering: Fun, Energy, and the Paper Audit

Deliberately manufacture an abundant mindset by reframing for fun, scheduling for energy, and journaling the triggers.

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Strategy4 steps

Be the Historian

Systematically reconstruct why past decisions were made so you inherit the lessons and see the baggage.

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Leadership5 steps

Depth Without Stomping

Go deep on the details of the business, then course-correct by seeding hypotheses instead of overruling.

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Influence5 steps

Difficult Personality Protocol: Drivers and Gratitude

Reverse-engineer what a difficult person cares about, then reframe frustration into what you can learn from them.

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Leadership5 steps

Founder-Mode Navigation: Objective Behind the Ask

Treat the founder as a lever, and every founder directive as a mechanism hiding an objective.

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Communication7 steps

Hard Feedback, Both Directions

Receive: feel it, don't react, come back curious. Give: state the care out loud, then be direct about perception.

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Communication5 steps

Summarize, Checkpoint, One Click Better

Manufacture strategic thinking in real time by synthesizing the room, then improving the idea one click.

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Leadership5 steps

The 70% Decision, Reward the Learning

Commit at 70% confidence with an explicit hypothesis, then iterate — and reward learning, not outcomes.

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Strategy5 steps

The Product-Adjacent Inroad

Break into PM by moving internally from a product-adjacent function, trading domain knowledge for the role.

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Strategy5 steps

The Strategic Formula: Simple Why x Change Agent

Being seen as strategic = articulating a compelling, simple why AND championing big, hard ideas.

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People & resources mentioned

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People · 9

Anneka GuptaMentionsanuka is Chief product officer at rubric a lecturer on product management at Stanford University's Graduate School of Business
“previously she was President GM and head of product at live ramp where she spent 11 years”
▶ Watch at ~0:30approx.
Anneka GuptaMentionsanuka is Chief product officer at rubric a lecturer on product management at Stanford University's Graduate School of Business
“anuka is Chief product officer at rubric a lecturer on product management at Stanford University's Graduate School of Business”
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Lenny RachitskyMentionstoday we've got another very special compilation episode something I've been pulling on more and more with the podcast and the newsletter
“today my guest is anuka Gupta”
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Paul GrahamCoinedPaul Graham talks about this too right just like live in the future and build it
“Paul gram put out as now classic instant classic founder mod mode post”
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Nel SinghalMentionsmentioned
“I was talking in Nel singal who runs the skip”
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Roger MartinCoinedRoger is one of the world's most trusted strategy advisers he's professor ameritus at the rotman school of management
“Roger Martin on the podcast wrote this book playing to win”
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Brandon SandersonRecommendsmentioned
“I love Brandon sanderson's books so I highly recommend those to as well”
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Ben HorowitzCoinedBen is the Z in A16Z, the world's largest venture capital firm with over $46 billion in committed capital.
“the hard thing about hard things uh by Ben horovitz”
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Isaac AsimovMentionshe's a science fiction writer
“I heard that you're a big fan of Isaac azimov”
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Resources · 29

LiveRampMentionscompany
“previously she was President GM and head of product at live ramp where she spent 11 years”
▶ Watch at ~0:30approx.
Stanford Graduate School of BusinessMentionscompany · Stanford University
“a lecturer on product management at Stanford University's Graduate School of Business”
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RubrikMentionscompany
“anuka is Chief product officer at rubric”
▶ Watch at ~0:30approx.
San FranciscoMentionsplace
“a one-day Event in San Francisco”
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Enterprise Ready ConferenceMentionsevent · WorkOS
“the Enterprise ready conference a one-day Event in San Francisco bringing together product and Engineering leaders”
▶ Watch at ~6:30approx.
WorkOSMentionscompany · WorkOS, Inc.
“it's completely free since it's hosted by work OS”
▶ Watch at ~7:00approx.
Command AIMentionstool
“today's episode is brought to you by command AI”
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Command AIMentionstool
“command AI is an AI power toolkit for support product growth and marketing teams”
▶ Watch at ~8:00approx.
Founder ModeCoinedother · Paul Graham
“Paul gram put out as now classic instant classic founder mod mode post”
▶ Watch at ~9:00approx.
The SkipMentionspodcast · Nikhyl Singhal
“Nel singal who runs the skip which is a community”
▶ Watch at ~14:00approx.
RubrikMentionscompany
“rubric operates in the cyber security space”
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Playing to WinCoinedbook · A.G. Lafley and Roger Martin
“Roger Martin on the podcast wrote this book playing to win”
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ZoomUsessoftware · Zoom Video Communications
“you can do that in Zoom you can also use a chat I've done that very effectively”
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Chase CenterMentionsplace
“he's being interviewed at the chase Center”
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SnowflakeMentionscompany · Snowflake Inc.
“built by alums of Airbnb and snowflake for modern growth teams”
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EppoMentionssoftware · Eppo
“EPO is a Next Generation AB testing and feature management platform”
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AirbnbMentionscompany · Brian Chesky, Joe Gebbia, and Nathan Blecharczyk
“EPO is a Next Generation AB testing and feature management platform built by alums of Airbnb and snowflake”
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FigmaMentionssoftware · Figma
“students would say well can you teach me how to use figma”
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DovetailRecommendssoftware · Dovetail
“we use dovetail and it's been fantastic connects into all of the zoom calls”
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DovetailUsessoftware · Dovetail
“we use dovetail and it's been fantastic”
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The Hard Thing About Hard ThingsRecommendsbook · Ben Horowitz
“the hard thing about hard things uh by Ben horovitz such a great book”
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FalloutRecommendstv show
“I really like Fallout which is a dystopian show based on a post-apocalyptic post-nuclear War uh world and very entertaining”
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FoundationMentionstv show · Isaac Asimov
“don't watch the show because the show is so different from the book series”
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Foundation seriesRecommendsbook · Isaac Asimov
“I really like the foundation series so starting with that is is really good”
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LinkedInUseswebsite · LinkedIn
“you can find me on LinkedIn follow me DM me would love to connect”
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LennyPodcast.comMentionswebsite · Lenny Rachitsky
“learn more about the show at Lenny podcast.com”
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Apple PodcastsMentionssoftware · Apple Inc.
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Lenny's PodcastCoinedpodcast · Lenny Rachitsky
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SpotifyMentionssoftware · Spotify
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Insights & moments

The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster55:00

New PMs Think They Need Figma; They Actually Need to Clarify Ambiguity

When Gupta interviewed students designing her Stanford PM class, they wanted to learn tools like Figma. She sees that as a mismatch: the real skill of a PM is taking very ambiguous situations and consistently driving more clarity over time, not mastering any particular tool or process. Students who later became PMs came to understand this in practice.

Aspiring PMs over-index on learning tools and process
The actual core skill is turning ambiguity into increasing clarity over time
There's a persistent gap between what newcomers say they want to learn and what they need
Understanding this typically only lands once they're doing the job

“I don't think it's the tools that you need to learn to be successful I think what you need to learn to be successful is…”
Anneka Gupta · 55:30

#product-management#skills#career

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take30:00

It's Not About the Right Decision, It's About Making the Decision

Gupta's parting advice to a departing colleague, and a recurring theme: product leaders always operate on imprecise information, so analysis paralysis is the real enemy. Once you commit, you learn high-fidelity information you can't get from the hypothetical. If a decision is roughly 70% right, you can iterate the rest.

You're always operating off imprecise information as a product leader
Committing produces new, high-quality information the hypothetical can't
A ~70% right decision leaves 20-30% to iterate in either direction
Making decisions quickly and iterating is a form of the 'speed matters' principle

“once you commit to a decision you actually learn more post committing to that decision about what's going to work and not going to work”
Anneka Gupta · 30:30

“as long as your decision is like 70% right you can iterate on that 20 30% in either direction”
Anneka Gupta · 31:00

#decision-making#product-management#speed

Q&A· 4

Q&A10:00

How to Work as a Product Leader Under a Founder in Founder Mode

Asked how to survive between a founder in founder mode and the team, Gupta reframes the founder as a resource with unique power to change direction. When she disagrees with a founder's idea, she digs for the underlying objective rather than fighting the mechanism, then proposes alternative ways to hit that goal. Some hills aren't worth dying on, and knowing which is a core head-of-product judgment call.

View the founder's power as a lever you can activate to push initiatives that are best for the company
When you disagree, step back and ask why they're pushing it and what objective they're really after
If you understand the objective, offer alternative options to reach the same goal
Decide which fights are make-or-break vs. which to let go

“when a Founder is in founder mode what they are doing and if they're doing it well what they're doing is really deeply understanding the…”
Anneka Gupta · 10:30

#founder-mode#product-leadership#stakeholder-management

Q&A14:30

How She Operates in Founder Mode Without Steamrolling Her Team

Gupta says great leaders don't avoid the details to 'empower' people; they go deep on what's working, the financials, and how decisions get made, then choose where to intervene. To course-correct without demoralizing people, she has teams present their own strategy first, then improves it through questions and hypotheses rather than rewriting it. She deliberately shares hypotheses so junior voices aren't silenced by her seniority.

Collect deep information about the business even on things you won't act on immediately
Have people present their strategy, then ask questions and make suggestions in that forum
Focus intervention on what could kill the business and the biggest opportunities
Seed a hypothesis to open discussion rather than pronounce, so people will surface concerns

“understanding the details of the business and asking questions understanding to the utmost extent you can what's working what's not”
Anneka Gupta · 14:30

“I ask people to present their strategies for things that I think we may need to do a course correction on”
Anneka Gupta · 15:30

#founder-mode#product-leadership#coaching

Q&A41:30

How to Give and Receive Hard Feedback Without Triggering Defensiveness

On receiving feedback, Gupta lets herself fully feel the emotion, then waits hours or days before reacting and returns curious about where it came from. On giving it, she explicitly tells people she cares about them and wants them to succeed, stays direct rather than passive-aggressive, and preps heavily to frame it without attacking. She often opens by asking what the person wants from their career so she can tailor the feedback.

Receiving: let yourself feel it, don't react for hours or days, then come back curious
All feedback is valid, but you don't need to act on all of it
Giving: state that you care and want them to succeed, and show it in body language
Be direct, not passive-aggressive; frame as 'this is how you're being perceived'

“let myself feel the things that I'm going to feel and then once that's passed whether that's a few hours or a few days don't…”
Anneka Gupta · 42:30

“I care so much about you and I'm giving you this feedback because I want you to be successful and I want you to be…”
Anneka Gupta · 47:30

#feedback#leadership#communication

Q&A51:00

How to Break Into Product Management From Another Function

Gupta's advice for aspiring PMs is to move into product within your current company rather than switching company and role at once, since you already have credibility. Join any product-adjacent function, and nearly every function is product-adjacent, then build a relationship with a product leader and take on product-related projects. Whatever function you come from gives you knowledge (support tickets, sales objections, technical build) you bring to the PM table.

Moving into product inside your current company is easier than switching both company and job
Join a product-adjacent function, then find your way into product from there
At a small startup with no PMs, take initiative on product work since no one else is
Read the room on whether to state your PM ambition in interviews (fine at a 20-person startup, risky at 5,000)

“I definitely think doing it within the same company is a lot easier than trying to switch companies and switch jobs at the same time”
Anneka Gupta · 51:30

“join a product adjacent function which honestly pretty much every function is product adjacent because what function does product not engage with”
Anneka Gupta · 53:00

#career#product-management#breaking-in

Tool· 1

Tool59:30

Using AI (Dovetail) to Summarize and Search User Research Calls

In the AI corner, Gupta shares that her team uses AI to summarize and tag their user research calls, so any insight can later be searched, surfaced with its transcript, and re-summarized. She names Dovetail as the specific tool, which connects into their Zoom calls and handles summarization and search. She sees this kind of information summarization as a big early unlock for PMs.

AI summarizes and tags all user research calls so insights are searchable later
You can look up any topic and get the call, context, transcript, and summary
Tool named: Dovetail, which connects into Zoom calls
She views research summarization as a major but still-early AI unlock for PMs

“one way that we're using AI today is summarizing our user research calls so that has been really valuable”
Anneka Gupta · 1:00:00

“we use dovetail and it's been fantastic connects into all of the zoom calls and everything does a great job with uh summarization with search…”
Anneka Gupta · 1:01:00

#ai#tools#user-research#product-management

Takeaway· 8

Takeaway02:00

The Mindset That Got Her Through Firing Her Whole Team: Have Fun

Anneka Gupta's core career mindset is figuring out how to have fun even in the most difficult situations. She credits this reframe with getting her through having to replace all of her direct reports in a short window. When hard times hit, she says, it's easy to slip into a scarcity mindset and see every hurdle as unachievable.

Keeps a Post-it on her computer that says 'have fun'
Applied the reframe when she had to change out all her direct reports in short order
Tactics: ask what she can learn from the situation, and bring humor to open meetings on a light note
As a leader, the goal is transferring that mindset to the people around you, not just holding it yourself

“actually gave me advice on this is to figure out how to have fun in my job even in the most difficult of times”
Anneka Gupta · 02:30

“it's easy to operate from a mindset of scarcity and to look at everything as an unachievable hurdle to overcome and when I was able…”
Anneka Gupta · 02:30

#mindset#leadership#resilience

Takeaway05:30

Schedule Your Day Around Energy, Not Time

Gupta argues the amount of emotional and mental energy you bring to a problem matters more than how many hours you allot to it. She architects her day to protect her energy, avoiding hard work at her worst time of day and refusing to skip meals. Managing energy this way is what lets her keep an abundant rather than scarce mindset.

Won't schedule her most difficult meetings or strategy writing for 5-6pm, her worst time of day
Skipping lunch for a protein bar noticeably decreases her energy
Manage energy levels and schedule time around them, not the other way round
Protecting energy is what enables the abundant mindset in hard situations

“5: to 6: p.m is my worst time of day and I know that about myself so I'm not going to schedule in my most…”
Anneka Gupta · 06:00

#productivity#energy-management#self-management

Takeaway18:30

What People Really Mean When They Say 'Be More Strategic'

After being told twice in her career that she wasn't strategic enough, Gupta researched what the word actually means. Her formula: a strategic person articulates a compelling and simple 'why' behind decisions AND champions big, hard, long-term-right changes. Have one without the other and people won't see you as strategic.

Strategic = articulate a compelling, simple why + be a change agent for hard, long-term-right things
Great at the 'why' but only small ideas = not strategic
Championing big ideas but can't articulate the why simply = not strategic either
She got this feedback in a performance review and again while interviewing for head-of-product roles

“when people say I want someone that's strategic what they're really saying is I want someone that can come up with an articulate a compelling…”
Anneka Gupta · 19:00

“if you're really good at at articulating the why but you're only bringing small ideas to the table then that's not strategic”
Anneka Gupta · 19:30

#strategy#career#product-management

Takeaway20:30

The Simplest Way to Seem Strategic: Summarize in the Room

Gupta's daily tactic for appearing (and being) strategic is summarization: bring diverse voices together, then periodically synthesize what's been said and what it implies for direction, ending on a question. People perceive the act of summarizing as strategy even when no new idea is added. It also makes people feel heard and moves circular discussions forward.

Periodically pause to capture what's been said and what it means for direction
Always end the summary on a question, inviting agreement or dissent
On Zoom, summarize in the chat as a lower-stakes way to insert your view
On a whiteboard, capture the summary visually while people talk

“that summarization even though I may not be adding a new idea into that I found people actually view that as strategy they view the…”
Anneka Gupta · 21:30

#strategy#meetings#communication#product-management

Takeaway22:00

Big Strategy Ideas Come From Making Existing Ones 'One Click Better'

Rather than conjuring radical ideas from thin air, Gupta takes the ideas already surfaced by stakeholders and asks how to make each one slightly better. Viewed from an outside-in, customer-problem perspective and ignoring implementation difficulty, this incremental improvement compounds into genuinely big, change-agent ideas. Lenny connects it to Roger Martin's 'betterment' and Alex Karp's 'adjacent possible.'

Take existing ideas and make them slightly better, not radically different
Frame from the customer problem and ignore how hard the technical build will be
Doing this over three to six months materially increased the number of big ideas the company pursued
Echoes 'betterment' (Roger Martin) and 'adjacent possible' framing

“how do I make this idea one click better and it's not about how do you do something radically radically different but taking ideas and…”
Anneka Gupta · 22:00

#strategy#ideation#product-management

Takeaway28:00

Become a 'Historian' to Make Better Decisions

When Gupta joined Rubrik she deliberately reconstructed the company's past: which products failed and why, how decisions were made, and what perceptions people carried. Learning from mistakes she didn't personally live through improved her forward decisions and helped her understand the 'baggage' people bring to new initiatives. You can be a historian at any time, not just when you join.

Study why past products failed and how prior decisions were made, good or bad
Learn from mistakes you didn't personally experience
Understand the baggage behind 'we tried that before' resistance
Being a historian isn't just an onboarding move; stay curious about old projects continuously

“one of the things that I decided to do when I joined the company was to really understand what happened in the past”
Anneka Gupta · 28:00

“you can always be a historian it doesn't have to be just when you join a company”
Anneka Gupta · 29:00

#decision-making#onboarding#product-leadership

Takeaway32:00

To Build a Risk-Taking Culture, Reward Learning Over Outcome

To make people comfortable deciding with only 70% of the information, Gupta makes the hypotheses and assumptions behind each decision explicit up front. When something fails, the team returns to the original hypothesis and extracts what they learned. The key to a bet-making culture is rewarding the learning, not the outcome.

State the hypothesis (or series of hypotheses and assumptions) everyone shares when deciding
When a bet fails, go back to the original hypothesis and name what you learned
Reward learning versus outcome to make risk-taking safe
A 'bad' decision is fine if it teaches you something about customers or the business

“the way to make a culture of risk-taking and people willing to make these bets and go out on a limb is to reward the…”
Anneka Gupta · 33:00

#culture#decision-making#experimentation

Takeaway37:30

How She Navigates High-Ego, Difficult Personalities

Gupta starts from the belief that she can work with anyone, then works to understand what genuinely drives a difficult person, whether that's the company's success or their own career image. She shifts anger or frustration into gratitude by asking what she can learn from them. To decode someone's motivations, she talks to peers and reports who've worked with them successfully.

Believe you can work with anyone, then identify what the person truly cares about
Match your ask to their desire, like building a product for their motivation
Reframe frustration into gratitude by finding what you can learn from them
Learn someone's motivations by asking others who've worked with them successfully

“embody the mindset of feeling like and believing that I can work with anyone”
Anneka Gupta · 38:00

“instead of feeling like anger or frustration with the person uh and instead trying to shift that to a mindset of feeling gratitude”
Anneka Gupta · 39:00

#leadership#conflict#relationships

Key ideas

Frameworks in this episode

Abundance Engineering: Fun, Energy, and the Paper Audit

Be the Historian

Depth Without Stomping

Difficult Personality Protocol: Drivers and Gratitude

Founder-Mode Navigation: Objective Behind the Ask

Hard Feedback, Both Directions

Summarize, Checkpoint, One Click Better

The 70% Decision, Reward the Learning

The Product-Adjacent Inroad

The Strategic Formula: Simple Why x Change Agent

People & resources mentioned

People · 9

Resources · 29

Insights & moments

⚡Myth Buster· 1

New PMs Think They Need Figma; They Actually Need to Clarify Ambiguity

◆Hot Take· 1

It's Not About the Right Decision, It's About Making the Decision

?Q&A· 4

How to Work as a Product Leader Under a Founder in Founder Mode

How She Operates in Founder Mode Without Steamrolling Her Team

How to Give and Receive Hard Feedback Without Triggering Defensiveness

How to Break Into Product Management From Another Function

✦Tool· 1

Using AI (Dovetail) to Summarize and Search User Research Calls

▲Takeaway· 8

The Mindset That Got Her Through Firing Her Whole Team: Have Fun

Schedule Your Day Around Energy, Not Time

What People Really Mean When They Say 'Be More Strategic'

The Simplest Way to Seem Strategic: Summarize in the Room

Big Strategy Ideas Come From Making Existing Ones 'One Click Better'

Become a 'Historian' to Make Better Decisions

To Build a Risk-Taking Culture, Reward Learning Over Outcome

How She Navigates High-Ego, Difficult Personalities

Myth Buster· 1

Hot Take· 1

Q&A· 4

Tool· 1

Takeaway· 8