“I love Designing Your Life by Bill Bernett.”
Designing Your Life
By Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
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“another one which is maybe like a little bit more in the like career lens is the this book called designing your life”
“another one is designing your life by uh Bill Burnett and Dave Abbott Dave Evans”
“The next book that I also recommend is a book called Designing Your Life.”
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