Organizational Kayfabe
Diagnose the shared fiction everyone knows is false — then route around it without detonating it.
- Difficulty
- Advanced
- Time to result
- ~ongoing to results
- Steps
- 5
- Confidence
- 95%
Kayfabe (a carny term from pro wrestling) is a thing everybody knows is fake yet everybody acts is real. In organizations, small self-protective optimism compounds up the reporting chain until leadership's picture is orders of magnitude off ground truth. Komoroske's framework is a diagnostic: understand why the fiction is structurally inevitable, why hitting the 'ground truth button' gets you destroyed, and how to build continuous drip-feeds of disconfirming evidence instead of one shattering revelation.
Origin
Kayfabe is a carnival/professional wrestling term. Komoroske adapted it into an organizational lens and popularized it via his widely-shared 'slime mold' deck and Bits and Bobs notes.
Core principles
- 01A little kayfabe is essential — it is the lubricant that lets an organization believe it can do something.
- 02The root asymmetry: you cannot make your boss look dumb, because they judge your performance.
- 03That one asymmetry compounds across layers into systemic delusion nobody wants and nobody can fix alone.
- 04Kayfabe is emergent, not the work of bad actors — it appears even where everyone hates it.
- 05In the limit, holding two truths is exhausting, so people sincerely start believing the fiction. The organization becomes a zombie.
- 06This is a descriptive lens, not cynicism — you name the force so you can work with it.
How to run it
- 1
Spot the compounding rounding-up
Look for the yellow-status-reported-as-green pattern: each layer rationally shades its report because it expects to fix things before the roll-up lands. Trace how many layers sit between the work and the decision-maker — that count is your delusion multiplier.
Pro tip Each individual white lie is genuinely reasonable and often right for the org. That is what makes the compounding invisible.
Watch out Do not moralize about it. Treating it as dishonesty means you will misdiagnose the mechanism.
- 2
Recognize the ground-truth trap
Understand that publicly declaring 'the official strategy cannot work' is the ground-truth button. Senior people will ask you not to press it — 'don't say it, just help nudge and fix it' — because the whole edifice may shatter. Anyone who presses it hard enough gets knocked out of the game.
Pro tip Accept the constraint honestly: acknowledging kayfabe is false puts you at risk, so plan for that rather than being surprised by it.
Watch out The trap is that helping quietly can mean helping something get worse for users, employees and the company.
- 3
Engineer disconfirming evidence in small doses
Rather than one massive revelation, create channels where disconfirming evidence arrives continuously and non-fatally. If bad news can only arrive as a single catastrophic moment, nobody will hear it — it builds until the system reaches supercritical and shatters.
Pro tip The pattern successful leaders use: instruct reports that bad news must reach them as soon as it exists, unshielded.
Watch out The more powerful you are, the more confirming evidence you will be handed — and if it does not exist, it will be manufactured for you without your knowledge.
- 4
Take a step back so you can absorb it
Disconfirming evidence hurts and feels like a distraction when you are busy — so it gets rejected from a good place. Deliberately create calm, unbusy time; from that vantage the same evidence stops feeling like an existential threat.
Pro tip Pair this with a weekly no-meeting reflection block — the calmer state is what makes the evidence usable.
- 5
Re-price your options given the force
Once you can see the kayfabe, re-evaluate your options: some paths that looked cheap are massively more expensive than they appear, and previously-odd paths are now ten times cheaper and far more likely to succeed. Pick accordingly.
Pro tip This is the payoff. Naming the force is a bummer for about a minute; then a whole option set opens up.
In the wild
You are five levels down. Your project is yellow. Your manager asks; the roll-up to leadership is next week. You reason: 'It's yellow, but I have my arms around it, I'll talk to Sarah, it'll be green by then — and if I say yellow now, someone swoops down, calls a review, and it gets harder to fix.' So you shade it. Every layer above you does exactly the same, for the same rational reasons.
→ By the time it reaches the top, the reported picture is many orders of magnitude off ground truth — and decisions get made on the fiction.
Someone sees the strategy cannot work and is told by a senior leader: 'I agree it's not perfect, but if you hit the ground truth button, the whole thing shatters — help me fix it instead.' A month later it is worse: no user value, no company value, employees burning out. But now speaking up means being flying-tackled to the ground. The cheapest way to hold the split-brain is to stop holding it and earnestly believe the fiction.
→ Everyone privately agrees it cannot work, everyone publicly believes it, and the organization lumbers on — a death state for large companies.
Common mistakes
Blaming bad actors
The dynamic is emergent from the boss-asymmetry. It appears even when everyone is well-intentioned and hates the outcome, which means firing or shaming individuals changes nothing.
Pressing the ground-truth button all at once
A single catastrophic revelation gets you removed and the system defends itself. Disconfirming evidence has to be able to arrive without killing anyone, or it will simply never arrive.
Mistaking the diagnosis for cynicism
Naming the mechanism is what makes it tractable. Refusing to look at it — because looking feels pessimistic — is precisely what lets it compound into a zombie state.
Is it for you?
Best for
Operators, PMs and leaders inside mid-to-large organizations who can see that the official plan cannot work and need a way to act on it without being ejected.
Not ideal for
Small, flat teams where ground truth is directly observable by everyone — there is no compounding chain to distort it.
From the transcript
“kab is a word that comes I believe is a Carney word that is used and applied to professional wrestling and it means a thing…”
“the problem is this happens up multiple layers and it compounds so then your layer above you does the same”
“the underlying Dynamic that must be true in any organization on a fundamental basis is you can't make your boss look dumb”
“how can you allow disconfirming evidence to show up that doesn't kill you that helps make you stronger”
“it's really easy to get surrounded if you are very powerful you will find all the confirming evidence you need and if it doesn't exist…”
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Alex Komoroske (Stripe, Google)