The Opposite of Play Isn't Work — It's Fear
After noticing her team's ideas getting more incremental and feedback getting "painfully polished," Megan heard mindset coach Ben Crowe explain that reaching a flow state requires a sense of play. His reframe stuck with her: the opposite of play is not work but fear. She realized fear was exactly what was shrinking her team's ambition, and used it as the trigger to invest in psychological safety.
- Flow states require a sense of play — feeling present, open to new ideas, unstressed
- People commonly frame work and play as opposites; the real opposite of play is fear
- Fear was why the team's ideas were becoming incremental
- Ben Crowe coaches Olympic gold medalists and world #1 tennis player Ashleigh Barty
- Recognizing the fear prompted a deliberate push on psychological safety
“But his point was actually that the opposite of play is fear.”